Vet Med Family
This piece was submitted anonymously to TVG by a student from the University of Illinois College of Veterinary Medicine.
Dear Illinois,
We hear a lot about “Vet Med Family” at our school. Every email from an exec board member starts and ends with, “Hey Vet Med Fam!” Interview day and tours describe the tightness of classes and how our private Facebook pages are filled with the freshest memes. Vetscapades every year includes a “Never Separated” category, where we all vote for those small groups that are never apart.
Yeah, those are definitely Vet Med Fam things for sure. But this semester, Vet Med Fam has been something else entirely, at least for me. It was texting me about updates on patients during lunch, because that’s what we would normally do everyday. It was letting me know that you would send me notes if lectures didn’t get recorded while I was gone. It was sending me study guides for the midterm that I took two weeks late. It was messages letting me know you were available to talk whenever I would need it. It was the subtle check-ins where you just stopped by my desk after I got back, where you asked if I was okay, without actually saying the words. It was a last cupcake you had baked and you thought I needed some chocolate. It was the invitations to coffee. It was making fun of me for buying yet another t-shirt. It was picking up the slack I left behind in clubs. It was a donation to a cause that was pivotal to a person you had never even met, but who was and is still the most important person in my life.
Vet Med Family is the true support that we give each other. We aren’t all friends. We don’t necessarily have a full name to every face in the room. We can annoy each other. But in the nearly three weeks I was gone, and the nearly three months since, you’d never have known that from the massive amount of support I received. People across classes, people who don’t know me, people who are the closest to me, faculty and staff, it didn’t matter. The support was there. Because of that support, I am still here with you all, prepping for finals, going downtown for trivia, scoring free food at lunch lectures. Because of your support, I’m slowly moving forward, healing in my own way.
So thank you, Illinois. You made the hardest time of my life a little bit easier to handle by being true Vet Med Family.