The Parent and the Mishap
Honorable Mention - Life as a Vet Student
Sally Moseley, St. Matthew's University
I have always thought of myself as a good pet owner.
That being said, how many discredited parents have told a similar tale?
How I think most pet owners (and many parents, as well) get into trouble is not by lack of caring but lack of knowing. I have been a huge advocate for client education before I even knew what client education was; I spoke to youth groups about the importance of realizing the responsibility of taking care of a pet before they got a pet, and I also spoke to them about common dangers pets may face.
I honestly did not inform them of very much, just some basic ideas. I mostly wanted to encourage those kids to follow the adage “look before you leap” so that they might get the most out of having a pet.
Somewhere along the line, I must have forgotten my own advice. I certainly cared, I just did not know. And I did not learn until the incident, which may be considered the point at which it was “too late”.
For ten years, I had two beautiful female leopard geckos: Fintsy and Coraco. When I first set up their tank, overjoyed with the thrill of the exotic experience, I had a stack of books about leopard geckos. I would have told you that I read every single word. I would have told you, and I would have believed it myself.
Ten years after first pouring sand into that tank, on a cold morning before the sun cared to join us, I woke up to a gargled shriek. It was a moment where I had no idea what was happening, but I did know that one of my geckos was in pain. (Later, my vet would try to comfort me by saying reptiles did not feel pain, but I changed his mind that day.) I jumped out of bed and lifted up my geckos’ favorite cave to find a strange site.
Fintsy was not only missing a foot, but she was biting her own leg. Maybe sometime in my veterinary career I will make up some plausible explanation for her biting her own leg. I wish I could give an explanation now, but all I can come up with at the moment is that it was in response to Coraco biting off her foot.
I am not sure how many people know about leopard geckos. Maybe to some people this incident does not look like my fault.
But I have not exactly given the full story yet. A couple of years before the incident, Coraco bit off Fintsy’s tail. Why didn’t I separate them after that? Two reasons: I had my suspicions that Coraco was partially blind, and leopard gecko tails grow back.
It was not until years later that the incident occurred, and in a panic of Googling I discovered that you are not supposed to let two female leopard geckos live in the same tank. They fight. I thought ten years was a long time to go with one “fight” that might have been a blind gecko’s attempt at catching a cricket. But then I read that everyone said they had geckos for three years or five years or even ten years before they fought.
If this had happened to everyone, how did I not discover this before?
Needless to say, I felt extremely foolish.